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Old October 22nd, 2007, 05:25 PM
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Need some help with a girl decision

Hey everyone today I am asking for some girl advice. See I know this girl. Were not really good friends but we went all through school with each other and know each other decently and talk at least once a day in science. Now you see I want to ask her out right. But just a few things concern me. One I don't know if shes dating anyone. Two with the whole problem i had last year i don't to date her then have her dump me because its bad for her rep. Three I don't know if she even likes me enough to consider dating me. So I guess I just really don't know what i should do. Should I ask her,figure out if she likes me very much, or just stay friends for now. Please help me out here.

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Old October 22nd, 2007, 05:31 PM
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Chief, I'm sorry, I don't think I know how old you are, and that makes a difference, I think.

But, if you're old enough to drive (whether you do or not), then just ask her out. If she doesn't like you that much, she'll say, "No, thank you." or "I'm sorry, I'm already doing something that evening."

If she's already dating someone else, she'll say, "How nice of you to ask, but I'm so-and-so's girlfriend."

If you're too young to drive, then just wait until you know her better.
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Old October 22nd, 2007, 05:36 PM
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If you don't know how she'd respond to a question like that, then it's best not to ask.

When a girl's interested in dating you, you'll get some unmistakable signs.

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Old October 22nd, 2007, 05:45 PM
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When a girl's interested in dating you, you'll get some unmistakable signs.
I think you misunderstimate a woman's power to confuse, ej. :P


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Old October 22nd, 2007, 05:51 PM
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When a girl's interested in dating you, you'll get some unmistakable signs.
I think you misunderstimate a woman's power to confuse, ej. :P
No, but I've often overestimated a woman's interest in me romantically. And at the High School level, when you're handicapped with MY looks, you quickly learn to stop embarassing yourself.

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Old October 22nd, 2007, 05:58 PM
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If you don't know how she'd respond to a question like that, then it's best not to ask.

When a girl's interested in dating you, you'll get some unmistakable signs.
I'm going to disagree here. Speaking as a guy who was totally clueless in high school, I think it's entirely possible to miss signs that should (later in life) be "unmistakable." I'm pretty sure there were at least two girls early on in my high school career who were pretty much throwing themselves at me, and the signs totally went over my head. If I'd had the smallest iota of self-confidence or perception, I would have asked one of them out and started building my understanding of relationships about three years earlier than I actually did.

Chief, there's almost never any harm in asking. The worst that will happen is that you'll learn that you can live through rejection, and that's a valuable lesson.

You probably want to pay attention to Rev's advice too.
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I'm having the same trouble myself but with diferent situations. I know a girl myself, but last I heard she said she didn't want a boyfriend. How am I supposed to ask her when I know something like that?

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jacques said pretty much exactly what I would have said (except that there was only one girl interested in me - go jacques!). It may sound odd, but getting rejected and building up a tolerance for it is a great social skill. 'Course, in High School I think I felt like I would have rather died than tell a girl I liked her and have her reject me so...

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I'm having the same trouble myself but with diferent situations. I know a girl myself, but last I heard she said she didn't want a boyfriend. How am I supposed to ask her when I know something like that?
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