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Were feelings hurt? Certainly! Did I care? Nope. It bugs the crap outta me when people get to adulthood and are clueless to certain social barriers. So don't ever let anyone tell you how soon to have kids. That is totally up to you and your spouse. It bothers me even more because I have a brother who was married before me who wanted to start his family but couldnt due to infertility. He and is wife were heart broken. I would totally lose it when people would say to him, "Wow, you're letting your little brother get ahead of you, he has 2 kids, its time you catch up eh? blah blah blah". So inconsiderate....sheesh. |
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On a sidenote: I enjoy spending time with my sisters' kids; at the end of the day, they go home. My Custom Miscellany | Tourney Results Online HS - Master Figure Template | HS Online app | Online Play Instructions |
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Why open another bag of chips when we already have open ones? Quote:
If you're going to have children anyways you might as well adopt or at least try to. Quote:
I find that to be a reasonable position. Would you like me to try and sugar coat my wordings for you? Circumcision? HIS body, HIS decision. A person should have the right to their own body. "Sometimes you're right but you're always an asshole." - Anonymous neg rep |
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Did you just compare raising a child - something that takes the equivalent of two decades of hard work, unconditional love, and tremendous stress - to eating a potato chip? There are a few difference here that you don't seem to understand. Being a parent changes your entire life. Opening a bag of chips takes about 10 seconds and is then thrown in the trash and forgotten about. One requires spending hundreds of thousands of dollars to clothe, feed, educate, house, and keep safe. The other costs about a dollar. Quote:
You obviously don't want children, and aren't even thinking about adopting a child. How are you any better than the people you criticize? Other parents are working to raise functional, constructive members of society, and you're going to sit back and claim they're actions are "Unrighteous"? What have you done that makes you superior to those wicked, xenophobic, baby-producing people? Last edited by Sock; April 24th, 2013 at 07:30 PM. |
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Hand of fate is moving and the finger points to you ...Iron Maiden - The Wicker Man TUTORIAL FOR RE-BASING FIGURES 3hrs 43mins 32secs = 1242nd of 8808 overall - 1988 Honolulu Marathon |
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Thank you Sock for saying everything most of us were thinking.
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I criticize the idea that adoption should be disregarded. If someone that holds that belief takes it personally, too bad. Circumcision? HIS body, HIS decision. A person should have the right to their own body. "Sometimes you're right but you're always an asshole." - Anonymous neg rep |
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I am by no means the perfect dad, but I am trying my very best. It takes a special person to have the fortitude, humility and love to raise a child successfully. If you are worried about free time then it would be MUCH better for your kids (who I assume would be adopted) and society for you to remain child free. |
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I have a feeling that many of the latter ones would be xenophobic or selfish. Quote:
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If a parent of adopted children was to assert that they were more selfless than me, I'd agree with that. I wouldn't really agree that a fire fighter rescuing people from the building he himself set on fire is more of a hero than someone who neither sets fire to buildings nor saves people from them, though. If that makes sense. If you fix a problem that you created you just kind of return to 0. I'd say it only counts if you fix other people's problems. Circumcision? HIS body, HIS decision. A person should have the right to their own body. "Sometimes you're right but you're always an asshole." - Anonymous neg rep Last edited by ParaGoomba Slayer; April 24th, 2013 at 07:55 PM. |
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Once you have, explain why these same arguments cannot apply to me when I have biological children. Quote:
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You say you criticize the idea that adoption should be disregarded. So I suppose married couples should use contraceptives forever just so they can't procreate their own children by accident, just so they can adopt other people's children? Do you have consideration for people's religion that is against contraceptives? Hand of fate is moving and the finger points to you ...Iron Maiden - The Wicker Man TUTORIAL FOR RE-BASING FIGURES 3hrs 43mins 32secs = 1242nd of 8808 overall - 1988 Honolulu Marathon |
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Raising your own kids is easier than raising adopted kids. By sharing the same genetics you share a lot of the same pre-dispositions and naturally understand one another's perspectives more easily. If we want the parents of adopted children to be good at it, the most natural way to have access to the good that comes from experience is for them to have biological children first. And then the absolute best circumstance becomes nuclear families after a certain number of biological children looking at their circumstances and deciding that they have both the capability and the desire to adopt. This puts adopted children in the best possible position with regard to competent, experienced and loving parenting. ~Aldin, not discounting the value of couples adopting without biological children - simply pointing out the advantages of having biological children first He either fears his fate too much or his desserts are small That dares not put it to the touch to gain or lose it all ~James Graham |
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