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Re: Used Cars
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I added the italics to the little bit that dysole's post really reminded me of, but the whole thing is worth reading. |
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Re: Food for Thought: A Discourse on Deities
Great post.
A cloud can change its semblance, yet retain its will With the intimacy of destruction, One knows what it is to be alive The empty sky holds no reflection, for sorrow - Eslo Rudkey |
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Re: Food for Thought: A Discourse on Deities
Mad_wookiee's? Yes. He's a good guy. A local, so back when he was active here I got to play with him a few times, and we went to each other's tournaments once or twice.
Here is one of the posts he was referring to, when he was responding to my "hate the sinner" posts: Quote:
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Re: Food for Thought: A Discourse on Deities
I disagree. I think there's a difference in judging based on my own personal morals/beliefs (I think a blue shirt is a sin, so you wearing a blue shirt is sinful) and judging based on what God has laid out in scripture (God says wearing a blue shirt is a sin, so it's sinful).
For example, I personally think that drinking alcohol is morally questionable. I don't do it. But nowhere in Scripture (that I know of) does it say anything against drinking (drunkeness is different, obviously). Just because it's against my personal belief doesn't mean I can judge for it, since it's not a scriptural sin. If they were lying all the time? That's different, Scripture says lying is sinful, so it's okay to make that judgement. Doesn't mean I'm mean or aggressive or try to confront them. Doesn't mean I stop loving them. Just means that behavior has been judged sinful by God, and I recognize that. Of course, there's lots of areas that aren't as clear cut as we would like, and in those areas I do my best to err on the side of grace. |
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Re: Food for Thought: A Discourse on Deities
Swamper! Good to see you posting again.
We are talking about different things, I think. You can go ahead and think whatever you want about your neighbors; I don't care. If your relationship with your faith is such that you think driving a car with a manual transmission is evil, and your neighbor buys a stick shift and you therefore think he is sinning, that's fine! Just don't go to his house and tell him that you think he needs to live a better life. Or try to trick him into attending your Church of the Automatic Transmission. Or go to the voting booth and try to make manual transmissions illegal. Because your relationship with him is not such that it's any of your business what kind of car he drives. That's what I'm saying. Which I know is not the point of the thread, but I'm trying to develop my answer to @Flash_19 , who asked. edit: Though, @Swamper , I am also saying that there is a hair's breadth between the act of privately judging, and the act of presuming to be the salesman/muscle to get people to line up (or to suffer the this-world consequences). Several of dysole's posts and the post from mad_wookiee both address the idea that there is a line between (1) assessing what your neighbor does and (2) acting on it as if it's your business. Last edited by Dad_Scaper; August 26th, 2018 at 12:14 PM. |
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Re: Food for Thought: A Discourse on Deities
Swamper, is anyone not a sinner?
So what is the point of judgement? Perhaps we should leave judgement to God and the world would be a happier place. |
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Re: Food for Thought: A Discourse on Deities
@Dysole
, thanks for your response to my question. Based off of your descriptions of God, it seemed you had a belief that was different from the norm, which was interesting to me because most Christians view my beliefs on God as highly unorthodox. So, thanks.
@Dad_Scaper , thanks for your responses as well. You shared a lot of wonderful points. I guess if I had to sum up what I'm thinking about everything that you shared, I would turn to one of my favorite stories in the scriptures - the woman taken in adultery from John 8. You quoted from Mad Wookie - he gave some important context for this story by describing some of the religious fanaticism that existed at the time (particularly among the Pharisees). Many Pharisees received some of Christ's sternest rebukes because they were so caught up in their religious tradition that they had forgotten about the most important parts of the law - that being to love God and love your neighbor. This seems to be the major point in your responses as well. The scribes and Pharisees bring the woman before Christ, and ask Him if He thinks they should stone her for committing adultery. I love His response, "He that is without sin among you, let him first cast a stone at her." There was only one person there who met that criteria - Christ, Himself. He was the only one who would've been justified in throwing a stone at her. But He didn't. As I read the story, it's clear to me that Jesus did not condone her sin, but He loved and cared about her. He invited her to be better while expressing and demonstrating love. My goal in life is to try to be like Christ. He taught truth, and asked His disciples to do the same. He was full of perfect love, and I'm sure people felt that as they interacted with Him. I think Dysole expressed this Christ-like love particularly well and the importance of having it for others. So, that is a great challenge as a Christian and one that I hope to accomplish - to be able to appropriately balance the two principles of being loving, and sharing my beliefs. I always want to share my beliefs with love and respect and never in such a way as to put somebody down, or make them feel like I'm trying to sell them a car with an automatic transmission. And I realize that more often, the best way to do that may be without words - by demonstrating love for others through service free from ulterior motives. After discovering this thread, I felt like it was appropriate to share some things I believe in as they pertained to questions being asked. Again, I hope to never come across as being arrogant or a salesman. But, I think anytime you share a belief or opinion in an online forum like this, that is going to be a challenge no matter what you believe, and especially if it is something that you feel strongly about - like religion. I do want to hear other's opinions and perspectives because then I come to understand them better and know them better. And that, to me, seems to be one of the greatest reasons for the existence of this thread. |
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Re: Food for Thought: A Discourse on Deities
I will one up you and say the existence of this community.
Try to have this conversation anywhere else, I dare you. |
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Re: Food for Thought: A Discourse on Deities
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I will pull back the veil a little bit on my current approach to discussing social, religious, and political stuff now, on the internet or among a wider group of family and friends. Rule 1: Don't do it. That's what we were taught when we were younger and it was good advice then. Remains good advice now. Exceptions to be made when it's an appropriate environment, such as this thread, where the pot is intended to be stirred. Rule 2: Especially in environments where people already know how I feel, just try to model reasonable behavior. Don't discuss this stuff and just be good to people. So that when my friends go back to their own homes, and their own communities, they will know that there is a person in Baltimore who is open to discussion, and who might not agree but he treats people with respect. So that my friends, if they happen to encounter people at home who would speak ill of broad groups that would appear to include me, will know better. And they might speak up, and they might not, but at least they will know better. Rule 3: When I encounter people in my own circle who would speak poorly of groups that might include my other friends, given the right social situation I will take the opportunity to try to guide the other person to a place where the person will not generalize that way. And this, @Flash_19 , is why I referred to this as one of the Great Questions of Our Time (or whatever language I used). It's because proselytization, whether it's religious or political, whether it's Christian or Jewish (there are Jewish sects that proselytize within the Jewish community) or whatever, it reinforces our willingness to generalize. To identify some specific group of people to be persuaded / compelled / addressed. It is the generalizations that are interconnected with our sense of The Other. It is very, very easy to fall into a trap of thinking of some Other as a threat (or sheep in need of shepherding), and then dehumanizing the Other (Episcopalians; Jews; coastal elites, Fundamentalist Christians; whatever some "Other" might be) from there. You want to be a part of a better society, with less judgment of others and less unkind words? Be the change you want. Judge less, and use kinder words. That, @Flash_19 , is why your question to me was so important. Thank you for asking. Last edited by Dad_Scaper; August 26th, 2018 at 02:10 PM. |
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What Is Deity
Glad I could help. I have some opinions on a lot of the current Christian structure in America due to my experiences growing up inside multiple groupings within it but primarily what is now called evangelicalism and also due to my experiences after that once I realized I was a queer person. These dual identities have allowed me some interesting perspectives that aren't as common in American Christianity. Also, I read a lot and am constantly reading perspectives and also deeper historical, linguistic, and cultural understandings of a lot of scriptural texts. These combine together for a perspective that I think the Church needs.
~Dysole, constantly willing to poke and prod her understandings My Twitch Channel where I play Scape and other things My YouTube Channel where the games get uploaded later Dysole's Draft Rankings Map Thread (Not responsible for psychic damage) Customs Battle Reports This sentence is seven words long. This sentence is not seven words long. |
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Re: Food for Thought: A Discourse on Deities
As an atheist (much as I dislike beginning a sentence in that particular manner), I have no problem with someone sharing their faith with me in a general sense. Religious expression or even a polite discussion for the sake of clarity are no issue to me, whether they come from a friend or a stranger. An actual conversion attempt is where things get a bit prickly for me.
For starters, as a rule I avoid trying to tell other people how to live their lives regarding religion, and I tend to expect the same courtesy in kind. Of course, some faiths expect their followers to spread it, so this isn't a hard and fast guideline. Method is important, though. If a stranger or even a friend tells me I'm sinning (or, generally speaking, that my behavior is bad for any purely religious reason) then my patience will evaporate rather quickly. Sin doesn't mean anything to me on its own--it doesn't meet a standard of harm to myself or to other people that I would expect from someone asking me to change how I act, and I'm not interesting in choosing my spirituality based on shame or fear. At risk of generalizing, I imagine many other non-spiritual people feel similarly that sin is a rhetorical dead end for them. Encouraging spirituality as a method for leading a happier, fulfilling life is a more respectful tactic that I'm more open to listening to. That said, I would only accept the conceit of it from someone I knew fairly well, who I could reasonably trust knows what I want from life or is at least close enough to me to ask. Someone on the street could not effectively make this argument to me because I believe fulfillment is a personal matter--it's not one-size-fits-all. Even coming from someone I know, it would not be a conversation I would want to repeat--I would expect them to respect my final answer and not bring it up again unless prompted--unless, again, it was as a simple discussion rather than an attempt at conversion. Obviously, this thread is an exception to a lot of these rules. It would be dishonest of me to voice my opinion and expect the people around me in this setting to keep theirs quiet. But, since more perspectives were asked for, I thought I might as well throw this one on the pile. Last edited by All Your Pie; August 26th, 2018 at 07:43 PM. Reason: Really went wild with hyphens on this one, huh? |
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