You're in Richmond! That's not far at all. We have an active tournament scene in the mid-Atlantic. I hope you'll consider coming up to Hagerstown, Maryland, for a
tournament on 11/3. We're very nice, and I 100% promise you'll have fun. You might wonder if it's worth driving some distance each way, but you'll be glad you did. If you do.
Also, if you want to pursue online play, I encourage you to look at
this subforum. The stickied threads should give you all the information you need, and I think you'll find we're a welcoming, chill community.
Welcome to the boards!