I need some help

[Onacara]

OK Ill say it since no one else will....

So where is this MySpace site link?

In all honesty I was always curious as to what she actually looked like because most girls who act like they are hot usually arent

[Fencerjared]

I saw it when she first posted it, right before the link was moderated; I don't remember what she looked like at all (for good or bad), but the cards were really crappy. Couldn't find it when I went to go look after this came back up.

[Onacara]

Well she looks kinda cute from the small thumbnail pic on her MySpace page that you can see without signing up for it. Asian?

[Fencerjared]

If that was really her, and not someone's picture she used for a custom card.

[RobWeaver]

This may sound lie a blinding flash of the obvious, but she wasn't looking for gaming partners. You were being trolled as porn partners.

[Kurgan2001]

Hello again all! I wanted to say thank you for all of your support and good feedback it has been awhile since I had last been on so I will answer a few of the questions (or thoughts) posted. First RobWeaver I thought the same thing too that maybe she was just looking for porn friends, but she has a sizeable Heroscape collection and if all she wanted was porn friends there are easier ways to do it. Since it seem everyone wants to know what she looks like I can describe her to the best of my ability. She is between 5’4” & 5’6” tall, long black hair and brown eyes, her figure is best described as a little coke bottle. Let’s see; if I had to compare her to somebody I would say she looks a lot like the girl Amber from the movie Sucker Punch. Apparently she used to work at a full nude strip club in Albuquerque. Since the last time I posted Tish has sent me numerous messages and begged to be back in the group. Even sending me some rather expensive gifts. Now I believe in second chances, but this one time I really don’t think I can give her another chance.

[RobWeaver]

People who will mess up group dynamics that badly once will do it twice, and three times, etc. I'm glad it worked out to be less than it seemed. I wouldn't be keen on gaming with her again, either.

[Kurgan2001]

Well I slept on it for more than a few nights....and decided I just can't give Tish another chance. I gave/sent back all the rather expensive gifts she gave me...Which was Very hard but was all for the best...Hopefully I can get another group going soon.

[SuperSamyon]

Soo... about that myspace link... LOL.

I'm sorry you are going through this Kurgan2001. To be honest though, I'm jealous that you at least have a group that has some drama in it. If we could just get a Heroscape group going where I'm at that would be great... but i digress.

Also, for future reference, the best way to handle an unruly female is by firmly setting the boundaries. By maintaining eye contact and keeping a serious tone, most women will avoid the conflict and correct the behavior... unless they are unruly trash.

You also should never feel the need to justify your stance to someone based on what others are saying. You lost authority in her eyes when you said that "everyone else feels uncomfortable" when you should have just said "I feel uncomfortable and this needs to stop." If it is your house and your group its your rules. Besides, you won't have to rely on others getting a backbone when the time came.

Its interesting but not unexpected that she first threw a temper tantrum when you told her no for the first time (because she wasn't use to being stood up to) but then later came back more meekly the second time around once she knew you were serious.

Best of luck to you in the future.

[belgarath]

I think you made the right call. It is hard to stand up for what you believe sometimes and I applaud you for doing so.

[CanScape]

...guys, in case you haven't noticed yet, this OP smacks of being a troll. 12 posts? About some sexy chick who plays Heroscape but her 'sexy cards' are pissing off the other boys in the group?

Please tell me you aren't buying this. Even though the concept (as far-fetched as it is) is kinda funny.

[Kurgan2001]

I am really sorry you feel that way canscape. What could I possibly stand to gain from this? Also I am offendid at being called a liar, and itt seems you are the only person that feels that way.